I hugged one of my female friends at our high school graduation last year. She didn't know I had had a crush on her for a while and when she went in for the hug I shied away because (being anon and thus being cruelly awkward most of the time) I usually refuse offers to hug. When I stepped back she looked pretty hurt (all the girls were pretty emotional about leaving high school at the time). So like the male lead in a Key/KyoAni anime I face palmed and proceeded to wrap my arms around her. As soon as we embraced I felt complete. I felt like I never wanted to let go. It was amazing, not only were my arms around her, but her arms were around me! For the first time in my life I felt wanted, maybe even needed. Holding a girl in your arms makes you feel important, like you have a reason to be alive and that reason is to hold this girl for as long as possible. Anonymous, I promise you, even though you may have to go through all kinds of bullshit to get a girl, those few seconds when you're pressed up against one another are worth more than any anime or porn can offer.