Big Boss respected everyone, that's why he respected Snake?
You're so full of shit, just shut the fuck up with your baseless bullshit. Yes, he respected everyone de-facto, that's why he specifically points out to Snake in some of his last words that he respected him.
And Snake being a tool of the Patriots his entire life was out of his control. He was born to be a tool of the Patriots, but he tried to fight against it to the best of his ability while he still had the chance. The entire series is about going against what's supposed to be your pre-determined fate, you stupid fucker.
Jesus Christ why am I even talking to you, you're from /v/ and /v/ is full of nothing but trolls and pseudo-intellectual retards.