My girlfriend made me watch the first ten episodes of this over the last two days, and I actually enjoyed most of it. I can't really take more than five episodes in a row, but it is actually really funny and the animation is decent. It's definitely a girl show, but the only male who's actually gay is Haruhi's father, who's bisexual and prefers Haruhi's mother over anyone else. The "yaoi" scenes between the twins are purely for the sake of ridiculousness and humor. It's really not that distracting, and usually funny. Like someone said earlier, it almost seems like it's mocking fangirls.