I don't categorically disagree, but the term itself should be usable without scorn, so long as it's used appropriately (and sparingly). The second I see it used without fetish connotation AND without irony, I'll be with you in sage-bombing it as weeaboo faggotry.
In this case, though, I disagree regarding its misuse.
(Finally, to make a point as a linguistics faggot, you need to use capital letters and fully punctuate your sentences. I can tell you're not stupid because you get "it's" right, so buck up and go the whole nine yards.)