No, they're not. It was just serous business to your idiot girlfriend.
Hymen, regardless of size, are not very tough to break. Most of them probably go away the first time a girl inserts a tampon, if it's even still there.>>11642740
If you've had any kind of sex, you are not a virgin (which is a stupid term anyway. Most people who sleep around are the ones most tragically ignorant about sex.) Anal sex, vaginal sex, oral sex, even handjobs and fingering. Fucking stupid teenagers do all these things and don't call it sex, then they wonder where the hell their genital warts came from. Fucking fools.