No, and this is coming from a non-virgin. Sex is not all that it's cracked up to be. Most just use it as a way to act like they are superior if they can get laid a lot.
Obsessing over sex only leads to a feeling of emptiness, so don't focus on it.
Instead, just focus on what makes you happy, because that is what really matters.
Also, who cares if you are pathetic, we're all pathetic in some way. Some people are workaholics and thus pathetic because they have no real life outside of work. Some are slackers, some have STDS so they have that stigma and thus pathetic, others are pathetic in other ways.
Who gives a shit?