At first I'd let her hurt me and abuse me however she wants. Then she'd think she's completely in control and I'd do whatever she wanted. That's when I'd have my way with her. At first she'd be filled with rage, but it'd turn into fear as she realizes something she never thought would happen is happening. She'd cry and her mind would break but I'd make her feel so good that after I'm done she'd cry for more.
Afterwards, we'd act like she's still in control, but in reality she's my slave and does whatever I want and enjoys it.
...or something like that.