Finally, if you need any more convincing, consider this fact: there are fetishes both less and MORE deviant than furry-ism(?), yet none of the other people who practice them act anything close to as militant as furries. This might sound like a grand statement, but it's true. Just think about it. When's the last time you saw someone sign onto a forum and say "Hi! I'm a 20/m and I hail from SoCal, where the sun is bright, the days are long, and the girls are hot! My interests include video games, mountain biking, AND LETTING MY GIRLFRIEND SHIT IN MY MOUTH, AND LISTEN MOTHERFUCKERS, IF YOU'VE GOT SOMETHING AGAINST SHIT EATERS, YOU CAN JUST CRAM IT, BECAUSE SHITEATING ISN'T JUST A FETISH, IT'S A WAY OF LIFE."? When's the last time you saw a guy wandering down the street looking at chicks in flip-flops and bellowing, "MAN, I'D LIKE TO FUCK HER TOES LIKE A MADMAN! FOOT FETISH LIBERATION FRONT GOOOO!"? Or someone wearing a T-Shirt that said, "I'm wearing a diaper right now, and I just shat in it. CLEAN ME."?
I can guarantee you you haven't seen any of these things, because unlike furries, these groups apparently still cling to some vestige of sanity. Most of them don't expect society to reach forth and enfold them in loving, accepting arms. They seem to move with their own crowds, do their own thing, and not force anyone who isn't involved with them to deal with the way they behave. They're not deluding themselves that what interests them sexually is some sort of grand, baroque masquerade ball where they all just pretend in an academic sort of way to be professional piss-tasters. They're honest about it, and they keep it out of everyone else's face, AND they don't whine, whine, whine.
So take a lesson from them, furries. Just please, don't combine what they have with what you have. I don't think the world could survive.