NO, it fucking isn't, you cuntbag.
Take your parents. Now make they hold their dreams in their hands. Now make your place in the couple and their live.
And now, make yourself the reason why they have to leave it all for you.
Find out they were artists and fucking loved what they did and were loved for it.
How would you feel if you would discover it suddenly? Bad. And you don't have the situation to talk with them about what they think of the chance
If you don't understand, enjoy your selfish life.