>>10309861>best friend>>10309616 here,
The thing about female friends is that they tend not to share your interests. If they do, they're not fucking you. The only females who would fuck you don't (fully) understand you like how your "bro" understands you. The females who understand you like your bro are exactly like you in the way that they fuck a person who don't understand them and vice versa.
I'm guessing that usually, when intimacy is involved, it needs to be the biggest thing between two people, not the love of poetry or whatever the fuck they two have in common.
So the best way to go about it is (1) hang out with your bro and (2) Fuck a chick who's only interested in fucking. No drama, no worries.