I'm the one who you're referring to.
In fact, I drew the Clannad ending reaction chart, and every part of what's drawn was my pure reaction to the endings.
I agree with you, Tomoyo's route made me all "wuzzy and fuzzy feeling around". She's the best waifu and all.
But still, it felt a bit lacking on the rest. It didn't have the finality of Kotomi's, it didn't have the evolution and complection of Nagisa's, but it was nice to have a route where Tomoya actually knows what he wants and he will do everything he wants for it. The same with the girl he likes from the start in it.
We could say that makes Tomoyo a bit too perfect.
But hell, we're playing fucking Visual Novels for otakus.
We're not expecting something "realist".