more like you are making things too complicated than they are supposed to be.
If you like footjobs, then you have a foot fetish.
Primarily an anime foot fetish where the guy gets jacked off by said feet, but a foot fetish nonetheless.
this can be further simplified into "not sexual organ" fetish and even more simplified into "female body"
Lolicon is a subgenre of pedophilia. You can be a pedophile and be disgusted by 2d girls, thinking jacking off to anything but the real thing is pathetic, but you cant be a lolicon without being a pedophile.