Friends helps other in needs.
We are at best just able to spam promotion pictures and make you forget the pain for a bit longer.
Its no diff from a drug that makes you forget. If anything /a is more of the high school friend that is a dropout that can't do shit about your situation besides pushing more dope to you.
What you should do is learn not to make the mistakes most of /a anons did. To learn from your own mistake is smart, to learn from others mistake is wise.